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Original Article

If Size Matters, How Can You Be Sure?
by Sephera Giron

Under the name Ariana, Sephera Giron is the author of House Magic: The Good Witch's Guide to Bringing Grace to Your Space (Conari/Red Wheel Books), a book which blends concepts of wishcraft, feng shui and other disciplines to improve home, body and soul. She trained as a tarot counselor for three years with the Society of Metaphysical and Esoteric Studies International, and has received additional training and certificates in Reiki and Touch for Health. Sephera has been reading tarot professionally for over seven years, often under the name Ariana. Access Sephera's skills at her online office: http://ww

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Size matters, and it depends on the pussy too. Women are
all built differently, so for some, smaller and longer
is better. Tip size is also important.

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Good article. Good information. Thanks.

gauchodeca 43 M
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this was a really intrigueing article, i really don't
spend much time "sizing guys up", but like we
all know it's human nature to be curious.

rm_sherahh 46 F
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I HAVE BEEN WITH BULL MEN WHO SADLY I FELT THEIR BULL FEATURES
TOOK AWAY THEIR ''.THEIR GOODS WERE AS SMAL AS
THE HARE'S!AND VERY HANDSOME MEN USUALLY HAVE TH SAME
PROBLEM!!I'M SMALL 4FT 11'' WITH A TIGHT
VAG..BUT IT STRETCHES SO AFTER SOME TIME IN ACTION I LOVE
THE 8''+ GOODS.I CAN GO THE WHOLE NIGHT STILL NOT
TIRED SO THANX FOR YOUR OBSERVATION I WILL TRY IT OUT TOO.

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I think it's just alot of hub bub, what I mean by that
is that there is no definitive "average" size
for men. They claim it is 5 3/4" is the average size,
but they should make it like asize range.. for instance
4" - 7" should be average under 4" small
over 7" large... something like that! Happy Holidays
everyone!

MnMKutt 52 M
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All of this is intriguing, but how do us men really know?
I consider myself average/small, yet any woman I have ever
been with says that isn't true. I am only 6 - 6 1/2 when
erect (that seems small to me) but am 5 1/2 around at mid-shaft.
have I been misled by other information I have read? I am
under the impression that average is 7".

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i dont think sizes do really matters wholly.it may be contributory
factor.endurance is very important, as well as foreplay.how
ever kamasutra ancient indian literature on sex is a noteworthy
study matterial for every person.

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My question is how does one figure out what a woman is? lol.
Good article though.

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As long as the woman you are with likes it thats all that matters.

rm_mm0206 73 F
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Sounds to me like it is left up to the woman to decide what
is best for her, and in making that presumption, I can attest
that there are ways around a smaller size , passion and erotiscm
definitely can enhance and make an encounter worthy of
remembering. I know it also depends on the desires and needs
that both bring to the bedroom.

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Good article, but if making judgements at a passive nudist
event, how does one know what the erect size is unless the
subject is aroused?

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i like it good article, good to know

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The whole matter of what the woman mentioned at the start
of the article also depends on what kind of pics she was seeking,
hard or soft?? This all depends on whether they are growers
(smaller flaccid, large when erect) or showers (the size
is always on show)...
I'll freely admit to being a grower not a shower and
while non erect it could be looked at as non impressive,
but (not to increase my sex appeal lol) a number of my partners
have been amazed by it's erect size and girth....

furbe1 112 M
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I'm 46 yrs old and my dick work fine. It's average
size and still flow.I find it's how you work it or how
you move that count I also find that your tongue work the
best, better than a dick does to get the female to a real orgasm.
I know this because my wife will have many in a night time
and she love the tongue better than a big dick. I rest my case...

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In Sex Ed they were telling us (Some ten years ago now) that
the average male size is 6-1/4 inches. I wonder what the
averaghe nopn-errwect size is? Never really been one to
compare, but i mean it more than triples in size, or well
i can only speak for myself at least

Bhuds8666 57 M
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interesting article........

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hard.cock.looking.wet.hot.pussy.hot.tits.any.race

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I'm amazed they have the Bull at only 6 inches. I would
have thought a bull would be 8in+. I think if women want to
look before they take a guy home that's cool. Afterall
we tend to see breast sizes before we take a girl home. :)

chaz795 52 M
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Great Information, ,thanks for sharing...

klump21 41 M
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As long as she wants it. it'll be enough for her.

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interesting...I'm a lil over 8, so what does that make
me?

onefuntung 60 M
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very interesting

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I think size only matters based upon what the woman is like.
Some woman are very turned on by size and if that is the case
than it matters. Some it could be meaningless the way it
looks. Of course a man could have 10 inches but when he puts
it in he cums in 2 seconds...I don't think that size
is going to help in this case.

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I'm speechless

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seems cool ...

RockPebble 71 M
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Those numbers seem off. I'm 5'9" with about
6 1/2" and always figured I was about average. Your
scale stops at 6" that must leave a bunch of guys out.
Besides size is relative, the fit and motion are more important
than just numbers.

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it has to be less important than being attracted to yuor
partner

geofroyd 41 M
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size really matters for women to have orgasm and squirt

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I would like to differ on the sizes you mentioned for each
male type. Six inches is the average erect size and it is
the Bull not the Stallion. Stallion is about 8 inches, Bull
six, and Hare less than six.


Also, the various postures in Kamasutra are not only for
enjoyment of the mid sizes but to adjust for the size differences.
Certain postures will make a Hare penetrate deeper in the
woman than a flat out missionary position. Some other postures
will prevent the Stallion from enetering fully in a doe
or mare.

griffin96 56 C
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I agree w/ jrb6955, there are some guys that may be small
(hare) when flaccid and large(stallion by karma sutra)when
hard. So unless there is some stimulation at the nudist
event to get to man in question hard how would a woman be able
to judge correctly. Some guys might be the same hard as they
are soft and then the woman may still be disappointed. The
only way to judge is when it is hard and there is something
close to the penis to compare it to (if your looking at a picture).
The woman has to judge for herself. But if she is judging
by size alone then she is probably going to miss out on some
fantastic sex form some guys she may consider to small but
may be truly fantastic in practice.

Eracer67 72 M
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If size is the prize --- know what to measure & where
to start.
No apology for my 6", but it's the pile-driving
ass behind it that gets me encores.

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I think the Karma Sutra was writtn in India...and Indan
men have small penises... I heard

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Having been a nudist for many years I have talked to women
who definately "size up" men around the pool,
on the beach or in the casino on the annual nude cruise (yes,
me and 2000 of my closest nude friends on an 8 day Caribbean
cruise .... www.bare-necessities.com) I've also
talked to women who claim "I never look" Yeah,
right!
In either case the typical person at nude resorts is just
average. John and Jayne Hardbody tend to go to "textile"
resorts and cruises and you have to go to the "anything
goes" resorts to see males with erections so the suggested
method of selection would be inherently inaccurate.


Having said that I'm personaly certain many ladies
on this site would enjoy the nudist lifestyle if they would
just allow themselves to try it once.

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I have had sex with a lot of women. My average size cock seemed
to be very pleasing to them. I never had a complaint and typical
was invited to back for more. So size might matter to some
women but must women enjoy an average size cock.


Lifes short! Fuck often!

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I'm not so sure that personality matches size...

jrb6955 65 M
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Interesting article, particularly the notion of attending
a nudist event to check the size of a man's penis. While
I have never been to a nudist event, it is my understanding
that such events are designed to be very non-sexual. Hence,
I would expect that most male attendees at such events would
be flacid. If so, how can a woman really tell how large a particular
man is when he is flacid?

rm_L2O1V3E 47 M
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IT'S BEEN MY EXPERIENCE THAT IF I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP
FOR A LONG TIME WITH A WOMAN THAT THE SIZE OF MY PENIS ADAPTS
TO THE SIZE OF HER VAGINA.

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Well I have not had any ladies say anything about my size.
I am appox 8" when hard. Size is also for the ladies
to I meet one that would need a horse to fill her up.

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does the brain (the one in the head) add to size-----exactly
what i mean is-----would women in general prefer (must
choose please for discussion purposes) a small dick and
fabulous gray matter or large dong and airhead?????

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SIZE is not everything its how you do it its the oldest story
in the world SIZE

Lawa78 37 M
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i agree with this artical

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Totally agre with griffin96
Men grow at different rates...erect will tell the tale
if that's all she is interested in. But...there is
so much more to a "good" experience. It's
in the chemistry and the moment... well..longer than a
moment.

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Very good article, interesting and all. I will agree that
size does matter to some, because like someone else said,
all women are basically built differently. It may take
a 7 inch for some women to be pleased, and other women may
do fine with a small 4 inch, or whatever it may be.


I know, myself, when hard, I'm about 6 inches or more,
and I've never had any complaints. I don't look
at myself and say, "My, what a big cock I have!"
I don't think it's huge, but at the same time, I
think it's just fine, and I know how to use it, combined
with other satisfying tactics I can use, and again, I've
never had any complaints...that I was told of anyways.



Overall, I think it all depends on the person, their preference,
what they feel they need to be pleasured and satisfied,
and a lot of times, they don't know until it happens,
so it's kind of a guessing game for some in the beginning.
Though, I must say, a relationship should not be based on
this and this alone of course, which I think many people
would agree with.


If someone is merely concerned with the size of a male, then
they need to get their head checked and learn what a relationship
is, or just continue being narrow-minded and never being
in a happy relationship if that's what they want.


I, myself...don't judge my partners on whether she
has large breasts or if she's tight or loose, but those
things can certainly play a role in the bedroom, I know.
But, it's not the most important thing to me, but that's
just me! In my opinion, if two people want a relationship
to work badly enough, then they will deal with these issues
and find ways to work around it.

Body1109 40 F
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I think size does not matter arousal does because i have
had ome big ones that did nothing for me

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hey loved the article I am the type as soon as I get home clothes
come off my wife is not so free. I can say she is doing better
what would 8" plus be labled in the types just wandering
thanks again

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Guys do have to have some size to them. Other than that it's
how you work it.

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I like it alot. one penis up... all the way up!!

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size matters the girls i have met off One Night Stand Girls have told me they
love the thickness and length of my cock and they say that
it is a dif sensation then what they are use too

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the article was very informative. i now know that women
are really more interested in the size of the worm not how
it wiggles on the hook

rm_BTSSAIL 63 M
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Interesting article. I finally learned to shy away from
petite woman as they just couldn't accomodate things
well and we both would wind up damaged from the encounter.
I stick with the taller big boned women and things work out
a lot better. No one has ever gone away disappointed.

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I was surprised that a stallion was only 6inches come on
at least 7 inches

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Maybe the size of a penis is just a turn on for some women much
the same way large breast are for some men. If a woman likes
a large penis, then she should go after one.

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for me being average is your best bet to go with because of
the fact the he may fell a bit inadiquit that he will go the
extra mile to please his partner and being well hung over
eight or more he is not woried as much about pleasing couse
he feels that a cock of that size is all she needs

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I'm only 5'10" with 8" erect...and
i joke with my wife that i wouldn't mind an extra inch
or two and she say "NO WAY" in certain positions
when i'm all the way in and thrusting she says it hurts.So
as was stated, it's all up to the woman.

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Personally, I think, these numbers are meant not to offend
some guys. I'm about 7.5 - 8 with proportional girth
and I have never thought that was huge. Maybe it is, but it
really doesn't seem to be the case.

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very good of u alllllllllllllllll

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I enjoy the article. I would say i'm average (i'm
7 inchs) I have always wonder if size does really matter.
I have often talk to woman on this subject. Again it comes
down to what a woman perfer. I meet a woman that was married
for 5 years and her ex was 11 inchs and was 6'3"
in HT.. I thought ouch! and no way would I be able to please
her. But the truth was even thou the size was nice she said
he would cum with in 5 minutes into it and I was able to bring
her to an orgasma something her Ex was unable to do. Just
because the size of guys penis don't mean he can't
do the job. I suggest all should read Kama Sutra.

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Size doesn't matter (so long as it's bigger than
a cheerio?). Seriously, it's how the guys uses it that
counts.

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I'm sure every girl would agree that it aint what u got
its the way that you use it

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Very informative...

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That is stupid. There are so many in betweens that this article
doesn't compensate for. I was not a fan. Well written
though.

amos994 35 M
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I wasn't aware of the size's and catergories,
are given names based on sized.

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mt penis is known 4 being shriveled up toa mesely .5 - 1 inch
when soft. so judge me! But when its hard it grows to an astonising
7.5 and 5.25 inches in diameter. so id say That i am a grower
and not a shower as well

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I agree that size does matter to some extent. However I think
that it is more important to know how to make whatever size
you have work correctly.

scrtlvn 54 F
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Good information for future reference. Size does matter.

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I mut say a very interesting and informative article.


First I must ask what way is there for a man to know about the
woman of his desires (very tight, snug or loose).


Myself I feel I am of average size (6 - 7 1/2 inches in length
and 5 - 6 1/2 in girth), but I must asy I have had no complaints.
Including a woman who enjoyed fisting in our sexual play.



I also a firm believen in your sexual palate, if I can paraphrase
it what your desires are when you enter the bedroom or style
and technic (not the size of the wave, but the motion of the
ocean.