Good luck all, in your search.. I hear alot of complaints about sore losers. If I message/flirt/anything and you are not interested, rest assured, I will not hound you or send nasty remarks. I do not want anyone who does not want me. Why would anyone?? I'd rather be honestly rejected than maliciously lied to. Hello, 45 yr old male just looking for someone to chat with and who knows after? Not looking for pressure or heavy commitment. I am updating this bit by bit as I go. I've taken some time to browse the different people and most don't match what I am looking for. I am looking for someone fun who doesn't take things too seriously. Not looking for a long term relationship but, if it happens... it happens. I am completely new to looking for people via a site such as this. I do not know what all the abbreviations mean...LTR, FWB, NSA etc... lol... I am an educated man, just not extremely chat savvy. :> I am careful and would not jump into anything blind. I do not, and will not, accept head games, drama, deception, etc. Getting out of a long term relationship, that should have ended long ago. I have found this to be somewhat liberating. FREEDOM :) No need to hide, sneak or lie. I live alone, in my house, but I do have a who stays with me at a minimum, every other weekend and, more than that on occasion. I am not afraid to be seen in public with anyone, or having visitors at my house. If you are similar and looking for someone that matches me, give me a shout and lets talk. I am open, honest and have nothing to hide. I am employed full time, comfortable with my finances. I own a car and live alone. I rely on no one to take care of me financially. I have my own money and don't need anyone else's. I am here for real and not to play games. More to me means... conversation, relaxation, dinner, etc. I do have fantasies and stay horny. But, I tend to share those fantasies with someone in per or one-on-one via e-mail, phone, etc... not in my profile. I love "trimmed" women, little hair, or none, down below. I respect the same and keep myself well trimmed or shaven down below. :) Overall, I am a little on the hairy side everywhere else. I currently have a short beard but, that could change at anytime... I'm always changing my facial hair. and yes, there is a little grey mixed in all that hair. Going grey early is a family trait. I will be bald as an old man, another family trait (thanks Dad) :) I am 5'-8" tall, so if your looking for that 6 footer, it isn't me. I weight approximately 175 pounds, which I consider as a little heavy for my height. I have an average build, (sorry, no 6 pack abs here) My "package" (Can't thick of another way to say it currently) is also average (I think). Never measured it but, suppose I could. I am definitely not John Holmes but, I am also larger some I've seen. I am circumcised. My profile name of EasyGoing863 says it all :) I will continue to update my profile as I get my feet wet. I do have pictures and will post them here once I get more comfortable. I will also share pictures if requested. I will not ask you for a picture unless I am also willing to send.

My Ideal Person Someone fun and outgoing. Someone who is as comfortable in a loud crowded bar/restaurant as they are sitting in front of the TV munching on Doritos.

I like people to be 100% honest... no exceptions. If you're married, say it... if you're heavy, say it. Nothing you say will turn me off, unless it's a lie. I get aroused, just as easily, by a Barbie, a heavier lady, or a skinnier lady. Attitude and personality are the keys. Same goes with race.

I am prejudice against NO-ONE, and expect the same for you. I have been turned on/interested by women of EVERY color.

If you have reasons to be private in your affairs, that's fine...... just tell me.

Understand that I work, help raise a child, have other friends and that these events do take up some of my time. Please do not ask to meet my child. If I am with someone, they will meet her when I feel the time is right and not a second before.

I do not mind smokers, as I am a smoker.
I do not mind drinkers. I do not like being around drunk people unless, I'm drunk too. I drink rarely and it does not take much for me to get light headed (Yup, I'm a lightweight when it comes to drinking). When I do get drunk, i get VERY horny... just a precaution, LOL.

Please do not be drug addict or alcoholic.

Please be clean and STD free. Protection will always be used. I do not like condoms...I never met a man who does but, they are a necessity. Sex isn't worth losing my life for.

Be open to my fantasies and I will be to yours.

I will also update this section as I go forward.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
When i fantasize, it is usuall about a woman who treats sex
as something fun and laughable sometimes. Not always serious.
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I have fantasizes about 2 woman but, who hasn't

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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