[SIZE 2][COLOR green]I've been here quite awhile and it's time to update this thing. When my long marriage ended I thought I had to start all over again. Well, after spending five years contemplating that I recently realized that I haven't actually "started" anything. Deciding that it was time to get on with it, and having written my last ever check for college tuition, I closed my business and moved my office home. I am now happily looking forward to whatever lay ahead with excitement and anticipation. I believe that there is nothing more important than family. They were here when we got here. If we were lucky we made some of our own and they will be here for us when we go. What's more important. Although my s are all grown and spread around we keep in close touch. That is the greatest use of technology there is. The best years and memories of my life were spent raising my s. I am reaably fit and would expect the same. I like the outdoors (fishing, camping, hiking, gardening), I like to fix and build things around the house. I am active in my community, although not as much as I used to be, I played Jazz standards on the Piano in the dining room of a waterfront restaurant in Southern Mayland 2 evenings a week on the side for a couple of years but they are closed now so I had to move my Grand Piano to my home. It's becoming wall to wall pianos in there. When they closed I thought it would be nice to take a break for awhile since I had given all my weekends to it for a long time. I'll do it again. I am a gentleman, not someone who "knows how to be". I am honest without being rude and respect and expect honesty from others. I have pictures I would be happy to share on request but, I'm sorry, I don't do dick pics. If you are not prepared to to provide me with a current FULL BODY picture (and it's OK to keep your clothes on) then let's not waste each other's time. I have met several VERY NICE women from this site but they refused to show a pic before hand. They classified their "body type" as "AVERAGE" and I made it clear to all of them what I was looking for and some of them had 60 - 70lbs on me. They were very nice people! But if there is no physical attraction then where's it going? Let's all be honest with each other, can we? All women say they want an honest man but it seems very hard to find one who believes it is just as important for them to be honest. I AM NOT GOD'S GIFT TO WOMEN! But I am honest, sincere, thoughtful, considerate, reaably successful, talented, intelligent and articulate with a sense of humor and most women find me attractive. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR GODS GIFT TO MEN (although I wouldn't necessarily turn her down). But to be able to share some of the above qualities of which HONESTY is the most important would be a great start[/COLOR].[/SIZE]

My Ideal Person I would like to find a woman who is not afraid to show affection. One who can be warm and sharing, with a sense of humor who can carry on an intelligent conversation. A woman who can live without drama and appreciates being treated well. Are there any women out there who just want to relax and have a good time while they get to know someone? What ever happened to dinners and movies and dancing and good conversation with a nice wine?

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What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Jazz pianist most people haven't heard of.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, One on one in every conceivable position

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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