Ok, let's get this out of the way...I'm a BBW, which is polite speak for a fat chick. Not everyone's cup of tea, which I totally understand, but it's what I am. So, unless you like chubby chicks, you should just move on and we'll never speak of it. Thank you. Assuming you like women with a bit more than "a bit of meat on their bones," then you are still reading this. Then, you need to know a few things: 1) I am here for *me* not for you. This means that I am under no obligation just for being on this site. I have to get to know you and be comfortable before sharing anything. This means my name, a photo of my face, or any of my contact information. Don't just IM me and start asking me to meet you and ask for pics...not gonna happen. 2) My main goal here is not to just "hook up." I have to, at least, feel some level of attraction and like you as a human being. If you want to be treated like a slab of meat, I'm not your girl. I am looking for a friend that I may be interested in sharing intimacy with. 3) I have nothing to hide. That being said, I do require some level of discretion as I value my privacy. You should be an adult who knows how to be discreet, but have no reason to hide anything yourself...this means 4) I am not interested in someone already attached. I don't share and I don't sneak around. 5) Don't expect to come to my bed. My home is my sanctuary and I have neighbors who know I am a single, middle-aged woman. Remember my privacy thing. 6) The descriptions "MILF" and "Cougar" do not apply to me. I am nobody's momma and I there is such a thing as too young. If I say you're too young, this is not an invitation to try harder or to retort with "age is just a number."

My Ideal Person I am looking for a gentleman who is looking for the companionship of a kind, caring friend who may be interested in sharing a bit beyond friendship. I am not a freak and I am not a dominant bed partner. Not oposed to be gently led to expand my horizons a bit, I am admitedly more than a bit Vanilla.

I can be a challenge to satisfy and we'll discuss that more if things progress from here.