After a long layoff, I'm back on AFF. A few things: First: This site is not generally thought of as a "dating" site. If you're looking for your soulmate, find another site and another guy. If you've been lucky enough to find someone here, congratulations. Hope it goes well for you and lasts a long time. Second: If you're in a foreign country looking to marry an American, I'm not your guy. If you can get yourself here and you want to play, drop me a line. Third: I'm not looking for a committed relationship. That doesn't mean that if we hit it off and want to continue seeing each other we can't, but I'm not looking for a wife. Let's have some fun, see if we want to do it again or not, and go from there. I'm doing this because I still have a decent sex drive and I want it fulfilled. My wife and I do not have relations and have no plans to resume them. I'm still married mostly to help her. Is it cheating? Technically, yes. I'm not happy I have to go this route, but I don't know what else to do. I'm about 6' tall and have some extra weight to lose. I have dish water blond hair and blue eyes. My unit is average/thick. I'm up for just about anything. Feel free to drop me a line and let's see what develops. Update!: I will no longer flirt with people without pictures of some kind on their profiles. It is taking too much time to go through them all.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a lady or ladies aged 18-45 that really enjoy sex and are not afraid to say (and do) so. My taste in women is as varied as women are. I really love tiny ladies. Under five feet. The shorter the better. But being 5'9 is not necessarily a deal breaker! Race is totally un-important. What is more important is what I see in and behind the eyes. Breast size is also un-important but I do love the tighter asses. Grooming and cleanliness are vital! I'm not looking for any kind of relationship, so know that this is pressure-less.
For the less well-traveled ladies, gaining experience is key. I offer guidance, guilt/shame-free practice and total discretion. We can try anything from straight sex to mild bondage/domination to ???
Also, please send a picture of at least your face. We all want to know who we are talking to!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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