Honest, Intelligent and Employed, and a car that runs. I even have all of my hair and teeth ...and I don't even live in my mothers basement. What else can you ask for? I'm a professional white male with a wicked sense of humor as well as a sharp tongue and quick scathing wit. Nothing is sacred and I can even laugh at myself. If you are looking for someone that knows how to treat a lady please keep reading. If you have a problem with guys with tattoos please stop reading now. I have a large, very artistic, back piece that goes all the way down my left leg to my ankle. I must maintain a professional appearance for my job so there is nothing that can't be covered with a short sleeved shirt and long pants. I'm 5'11? and 220# with very broad chest and shoulders. I'm not obese but need to lose 20-30#. I am totally disease free and expect the same. I am also V-Safe. I don't look nor act my age. I don't do drugs or smoke,(don't spit or chew either) I do have an occasional drink but haven't been drunk is almost 25 years. Now for a few more things I am not. I am not a redneck even though I am a gun nut ...however I don't hunt or fish, I don't watch NASCAR, I don't watch sports. I am not abusive. As I said before I am very intelligent and intimidate people at times, I don't mean to and I don't 'talk down' to others. I love to travel anywhere from weekend trips to Caribbean cruises. Gatlinburg, Biloxi, New Orleans, Memphis, Chicago, Minneapolis are just a few of the places I love to visit. I especially love the mountains. I am honest to a fault and tend to say what I think. If you can't handle total honesty you may not like me. There is no drama or games with me and I and expect the same. Life is too short to waste. I am fiercely loyal, I will die for or kill for those who are mine. One thing I am is REAL. I enjoy doing most things as long as I'm with someone special. I'm not looking for 'notches on the bedpost'. I'd rather have quality over quantity, ideally I'd like to meet someone with which I can connect on a higher level than just the bedroom. Meeting a 'friend' as well as a playmate would be ideal.

My Ideal Person I'm looking to meet mature ladies from their 20s to their mid 50s. After saying that ...age is just a number. I've seen 20yo that are very mature ...and very immature 50yo. Size isn't as important as attitude, honesty, responsiveness, cleanliness and appearance. However I'm not attracted to obesity ...petite to average to fluffy or pleasantly plump is great.

I am a very sensual person and love everything about women, from the way they feel to the way they smell to the way they sound (especially when they scream or moan) to the way they taste (and everything in between). I'm dominant by nature but don't have anything to prove. I don't use that as an excuse to 'abuse' women either. I'm the type of guy that would send flowers to you at work, or one morning you might find a teddy bear and card in your car seat when you leave for work, ...just because. I am very open minded and can play at any level my partner wishes. I also have very few limits when it comes to pleasing my partner. I'd like to meet ladies that would like to attend 'alternative lifestyle' events with me, however this is not a requirement.

As I said before ...I am honest to a fault. Since you have read this far I ask that you spend another 30 seconds and read the rest of this. In all honesty I must say that I am married ...but my wife approves. I know you have heard this a million time ...but she has no problem talking with you on the phone or actually meeting you in person. I am not sneaking around. We actually had a live in girlfriend for a couple of years. Due to health issues my wife is not able to have a normal sexual relationship. We were swingers for several years so there is no problem with jealousy in our lives. You can be as much a part of my/our lives as you wish. You can travel with me alone ...or with us. She is OK with me spending weekends or nights away.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Food Play, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Leather, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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