Update 11/25/09: I have been on & off this site now for over a year. Some of the responses I have received to my initial emails have been great. Some others though have not. I feel I need to clarify a few things in order to paint a better picture for those who read my profile. My profile is honest. There are things in it that are mentioned or checked off to make you aware, and hopefully grab your attention, of my interest or involvement in a particular topic. That doesn’t mean these are only the activities I’ll engage in, as I know not everyone will enjoy what I enjoy. Nor will I expect you to participate in everything I checked off. It is a tool that I hope shows the wide diversity of my interests. But I think a few certain areas need a little explanation. Some are: Interested Activities – I checked off all that I am open to participate in. It doesn’t mean I expect you to do so if you don’t share the interest. Again, I point out that I am being open & honest in my profile. So because I have something like taking pictures checked off, I don’t expect you to engage in that activity if you don’t want to. I’m just saying that I have an interest in that area. There are interests checked off in your profile that caught my attention that will work just as well. Age Difference – So many essay’s on here state they want to try new adventures but then draw the line on age. I strongly believe that age is merely a number and that a person’s intellect is more important. And lets face it, chances are that you won’t be taking me to meet the , or mom & dad anyway. Again interests are why I wrote you. I learned first hand at a very young age that there lessons to be had by having interludes outside of your “age group.” I understand that some don’t see it that way and strongly disagree, and I do respect that. But perhaps some thought behind the initial reaction will lead to a more fulfilling experience. Multiple Partners – Should fall under the activity heading but for some reason appears to be a major stumbling block for some folks. Yes, I have that checked off, but that hardly makes me a swinger. Most of my group activities have been centered around FMF activity with an occasional MFM here and there. I am safe in all my participation and engage for mutual enjoyment. Many people thing that just because a guy wants to have sex with 2 or more women at the same time he is expecting to be taken care of by the women. Not always so. For me, a greater satisfaction is gained trying to keep my 2 lady friends hot & bothered. Trust me there has been more than one occasion where I had to work my tail off to make my partners climax. And I assure you it was more than worth my effort. And my MFM have been with married couples who wanted a third for her enjoyment. So while I am comfortable being naked and in close proximity to another male, I don’t feel that qualifies me as being Bi or gay. I don’t have an issue with people who are, but wanted to make mention as I’ve seen many emails pointing this out to me. I would hope that everyone who has joined this site is in search of meeting like minded individuals who are honest and open minded. To engage in activities that are mutually rewarding. I know there are many game players here, but hopefully we can weed through them in short order and spend more time interacting with those with sincere intentions. And of course the art of communication should always be utilized in the form of emails and phone calls when a question arises. I expect people to want to exchange emails and maybe a phone call prior to the first meeting. And I don’t expect to jump in the sack on the first “date” either. To really achieve the most fulfilling experience you have to have a least a basic understanding on your potential partner’s expectations and desires. Very few people I have met from here like the total stranger romp. Saying that it doesn’t happen, just not the norm. That clears my mind for the time being. I hope that after reading my profile you have more of an interest in chatting. I wish everyone the best in there quest, and always remember to play safe.

My Ideal Person I'm here to meet like minded individuals who enjoy the pleasures that sex has to offer. Play out your fantasy or fetish and lets both enjoy the moment. I am a busy person who has to work weird hours. So an LTR may not be possible at the moment.(not saying it is out of the question with the right person, just not the focus now) My handle says it all. I am honest, respectful and d/d free. Friendship would be nice as the pleasure increases as the trust level increases. Humor is a part of my life and helps to make me easy going. Please be real, that is all I ask. I don't care about race, weight, age (over 18 of course) or orientation. Be honest and willing to follow through and we'll get along fine. Though this is a sex sight and most of us are here looking to expand our sexual activities, I am also looking for a friendship to go beyond the bedroom. Movies, rides to no-where, or a quiet time cuddling on the couch. Travel to near by states is very possible. I do have recent pictures to share if interested. Hope to chat soon.

Honesty, humor, and a respect for others. D/d free and be able to communicate. I am open minded enough to try just about anything you want from mild to wild. And I don't mind being asked for "one-sided favors" either. Pleasure is the name of the game. If you just need to be eaten with no other interaction just say so. Want to watch me j/o for your enjoyment, no problem. I prefer the honest approach and will respect that, as well as pay up Lets make a new friendship and create passionate toe curling adventures.

My favorite activity is what I call the 70 minute challenge. This a where my lady friend kicks back and allows me to perform Cunnilingus on her. An alarm clock is set for 1 hour and 10 minutes later. The aim of this game is to see how many orgasms you can experience in the allotted time frame. I use 70 minutes figuring 10 minutes for comfort factors. Reciprocation is not required unless desired. Are you up to the challenge??

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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